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After writing this post, I started thinking a little bit more about what happens when victims do fight back during rapes that have so far only included the threat of violence.
A few years ago, I read the book Understanding Sexual Violence, by Diana Sculley. Sculley interviewed hundreds of convicted rapists to try and learn something [...]

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Re-reading this, I feel like I wasn’t as clear as I wanted to be in explaining the threatened and implied force that motivates a rape victim to cooperate during a “non-violent” rape attempt.
I started thinking about when I was a kid taking martial arts classes. My sensei frequently took the girls aside and talked to [...]

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Recently, Savage Love gave some advice to a girl who had been raped by her ex-boyfriend. Her new boyfriend was being a total human fail by considering the rape to be consensual enough and/or not rape-y enough to count as cheating. The girl had been at a party with her ex-boyfriend. He followed her out [...]

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